There are various ways of explaining yourself. Here are a few. You could say
The thing is…
What it is, is…
So what happened was…
If you say the thing is you are explaining the situation. You are explaining what happened that made you say that, or do that.
Similarly with what it is and what happened was. Although with what happened was…, you could also be using that phrase to tell a part of a story.
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